It’s not like we learned first‐date etiquette along with the knot‐tying, or earned badges for pickup lines to go along with those for foreign‐language acumen. We did have plenty of instruction in interpersonal relations, of course: a scout is always patient and kind and respectful, particularly to his elders.
I still try to live by the Boy Scout creed, to be courteous to others and develop my own potential, to try to leave the world a better place than I found it and otherwise be a good human being. But I can’t imagine that gay scoutmasters would be any better or worse at imbuing those traits — or at canoeing or building fires, for that matter.
That’s why it saddened me to hear that the Boy Scouts of America is continuing its policy of excluding gays, not just from adult leadership but from youth membership. What kind of message does it send to hormone‐addled adolescents discovering that they’re gay (or that their friends are) when an organization central to their identity turns out not to want them?
The scouts are fully within their rights to maintain that exclusive policy — private groups should be able to discriminate on whatever basis they wish — but it’s a shame that many Americans associate scouting with that constitutionally protected policy instead of the organization’s valuable core mission of providing a unique space where boys can grow and develop into honorable men.